Now in this day and age of so much information being free to hand how do we know what works the best for us? The answer to this problem is to trust you know what's best. That being said to be open to an expert isn't going to harm you? Or is it?
That depends. Again so many people are an authority on what works 'for me' only are they merely projecting their own opinions and patterns of thinking out to you as they don't really have a clue what else to do?
For yourself to gain in health in all areas of your life not just physically but mentally, emotionally, spiritually and even financially you have to learn to trust your own wisdom from inside your own mind.
We all have it, this internal place that speaks only with truth and wisdom and brings clarity from you to you. The fact is until your logical mind is at peace it is extremely hard to access that region of your own thinking and thus the higher brain functions but not impossible. When you live in the world of truth you will soon start to realize nothing is actually impossible, but that's for another time.
So in keeping with developing and maintaining excellent health let me give you some advice:
1. Never trust anyone over and above yourself. Listen yes, follow guidance but only if it works for you. Put it to the test. This will develop strong bonds of trust inside of yourself which in turn allows you to create less stress in your everyday decision-making, actions you are taking as well as the relationships you are building. Less stress creates less ill-health and thus increases productivity naturally
2. Be at one inside of your own mind. You are a lot more complex than you might think. Yet when you stop and take a look beyond any logical thoughts your mind is a vessel for facts and information that is simply inside of you. To clear your own thoughts try sitting quietly and focusing on your breathing. Let any insignificant thoughts pass you by. On average most people have 50,000 to 70,000 logical and unnecessary thoughts daily, so you can see how clearing your head can really help access your own truth, wisdom and clarity. Set aside time to do this for a few minutes each day with absolutely no interruptions. With practice and no effort you will soon be able to 'tune in' to your own highest wisdom and guidance
3. Believe you are not the ONE. You are however a wonderful unique individual that has their own thoughts, beliefs, memories, emotions, body, skills and capabilities and money. You are not any more important or worthy than anyone else is. When you fully understand this you realize you are the most important person in your life but no one else's. Thus you can only control what is yours and be at peace that other people have the right to control what is theirs. This means delegation of anything you no longer wish to do becomes easy for you and can relieve a build-up of tension and pressure. Remember there is always someone who is just as capable as you, if not better at doing it. This is particularly helpful if you struggle to 'save' people or the world. That isn't what we are here for. We are here to live our lives and respect others to live theirs. This respect will also build up strong boundaries and remove all need for defences to getting your own needs met. Boundaries are less harmful to the physical body as they do not involve the 'fight or flight' mechanism or encourage aggressive barriers inside of you or in other people. The power of NO is amazing. Start using it more often.
4. Let yourself speak. No one can ever make you feel one way or the other. If you take nothing else from this article than this, then you will be a lot more assertive in getting your own needs met and a lot less intimidated or scared of speaking your truth, regardless of anyone else's believes. Repressed and unfulfilled people aren't as healthy as people who are freely able to express themselves vocally, physically and emotionally. If you don't think anything is in your control then just be open to your own emotions, the way you feel is always in your control. Equally the way someone else feels is in their control not yours. Take a step back and learn to respect not blame yourself for how you feel at any given time, particularly if it involves what other people have done around you or to you. Forgiveness is only worthwhile if you start to understand that you have the choice of how you interact with others and with whom.
5. Foster self-belief as this builds self-esteem. When you are strong in self-esteem, the need to prove yourself as this or that falls away and you become better equipped to handle difficult people until eventually you stop attracting them but that's a book in its self. For now, just trust that as you have more self-respect so do the people you encounter. Try it don't just take my word for it. Set an intention to be respected by everyone and respect them and let it sink in then go out and notice the change that you as an empowered person have created in your life, health and well-being.
6. Wait. Sometimes the need to do or offer more has us running around in circles so just wait. The clearer your thinking becomes the less you waiver off the focus and forward movement that we all naturally gravitate towards. This in turn builds up less haste which creates less waste. This also means you age less quickly as fewer cells are produced and fewer cells are wasted. Ever wondered why you end up with colds on holidays? It's almost as if you can't find the time to be ill when you are at work but a holiday is an idea opportunity to get that obligatory cough/cold and recover before going back to the daily grind. Well it is as it says. You can't afford to have it whilst at work so you wait and then you create. You can't be that different to the neighbour or your children different to the neighbours children so as they get it like that and so to do you.
Am I right? If I'm not then well done you have broken the evil spell that we all have to be the same to belong and if you are still copying someone else's beliefs and therefore body ill-health, all be it blindly, then don't worry there is still hope for you yet. By waiting you actually end up creating only what is in your best interest to create based on truth rather than what happened in the past and that uncovers more than you realize to do with your own physical health. But I'll leave it at that as that is part of the fun of self-development it's up to you to get clear on your own intention professionally and personally after all you're the one creating your own health and life not me
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