Putting An End To Shyness Forever

Do you know that shyness is a) not hardwired, b) not part of who you truly are, c) rooted in early negative experiences of rejection, neglect, abandonment, humiliation, bullying, feeling unwanted and unloved and so on stored in the subconscious mind in the form of negative memories and that d) the subconscious programs driving this destructive tendency can now be completely eliminated from your mind/body easily and effortlessly? Do you know this can set one free to be their spontaneous, authentic, carefree, confident and attractive self in such a way that they will hardly remember what shyness felt like? Is that too hard to believe? Well, if you'd like to find out why this is now possible read on.

Shyness often manifests as a deep sense of anxiety, self consciousness, insecurity, vulnerability, inadequacy, embarrassment, humiliation or shame in social situations that causes one to avoid interacting with others. As is evident this leaves one feeling frustrated, alone, defective, flawed, deficient, inadequate, helpless, hopelessly stuck, unfulfilled, excluded, and depressed to name a few.

Shyness is driven by a host of subconsciously programmed beliefs and feelings that most people rarely even become conscious of such as:

1. There is something wrong with me.
2. I'm unlovable and worthless.
3. I'm inadequate and a loser.
4. I'm unattractive.
5. People think I'm weird.
6. The need to be liked, loved, appreciated, wanted.
7. The fear of being rejected or abandoned.
8. The fear of being humiliated.
9. The fear of behaving in immature and embarrassing ways.
10. The fear of saying something inappropriate.

And so on.

These negative programmed beliefs and feelings are downloaded into the mind/body early in life whenever a negative event occurs. For example suppose an individual had a difficult childhood with abusive or neglectful parents.

The memories of that abuse or neglect get stored within the person along with their associated beliefs such as: I'm unlovable, I'm worthless, No one likes or loves me, and I'm flawed or defective and so on.

These beliefs always lurk in the back of the person's mind and as I'm sure you can see create an emotional and physical impediment to being able to connect with others as they grow up.

Such negative beliefs about one's self convince the person that they will not succeed in social interactions because, according to such beliefs, the person believes deep down that no one will love, like or want them.

Hence attempting to connect with others will create a great sense of vulnerability and anxiety that serve like a self fulfilling prophecy making them appear unattractive and odd.

A decade ago it was discovered that if one could permanently erase or delete such negative memories from the subconscious mind the associated negative beliefs and feelings would also disappear forever. This approach left individuals feeling whole, complete, purified, confident, adequate, good about themselves, worthy, sure of themselves, resilient, able to be carefree and spontaneous, emotionally independent and self sufficient and able to easily and effortlessly interact with others as their Empowered Authentic Self.

Interestingly the shifts were so profound and permanent that individuals often could no longer recall what it felt like to be crippled by the past shyness that was destroying their lives.

So if you are one of those individuals who is stuck in a frustrating and depressing state of shyness and you would like to be free to be your True Authentic Self kindly visit the web site below where you can request a free introductory coaching consultation that will begin to achieve the relief and freedom you seek.

Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor, is an International Expert Life, Relationship and Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

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